I feel really sad today.

I am going to make a start emptying my mum's flat today, and taking out all the important stuff that I want (family photos, paperwork, things I want to keep for a memory box of my mum etc...) but it's making me feel sad.

I think that it's the fact that it's going to seem real when I start doing that. I know that she's not going to be coming back home. I think sad is a good (well, not good, but you know what I mean) feeling to have. It's normal. 

If I wasn't sad I would be worried and that would make me feel even worse than I do now. I am ok with feeling sad. It's part of the grieving process. 

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